So What's Your Proposal?

So What's Your Proposal?

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Shifting High-Conflict People from Blaming to Problem-Solving in 30 Seconds

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With high-conflict people increasing in society, the 24-hour news cycle, and social media, we are continually barraged with the worst behaviors of other people.

The strong temptation is to react, defend yourself and blame them back. Instead, consider the simple So, What’s Your Proposal? method for pulling them out of the past and away from blaming everyone else.

Blame is abundant these days! Every day people confront us at work, at the store, at home, in our communities and online. Nerves get on edge. More and more people get stuck blaming others for anything that goes wrong. With high-conflict people increasing in society, the 24-hour news cycle, and social media, we are continually barraged with the worst behaviors of other people. The strong temptation is to react, defend yourself and blame them back.

Instead, consider the simple So, What’s Your Proposal? method for pulling them out of the past and away from blaming everyone else. Get them to quickly:

  • focus on the future

  • take responsibility

  • contribute to finding solutions to problems – including those they created themselves.

You will stay calm and confident, while earning the respect of those around you – even those who want to blame you!

Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. is an award-winning author, lawyer, therapist, mediator and the President of High Conflict Institute. He developed the "High Conflict Personality" theory (HCP Theory) and is an international expert on managing high-conflict disputes.

As an attorney, Bill is a Certified Family Law Specialist in California and the Senior Family Mediator at the National Conflict Resolution Center in San Diego. Prior to becoming an attorney in 1992, he was a Licensed Clinical Social worker with twelve years’ experience providing therapy to children, adults, couples and families in psychiatric hospitals and outpatient clinics. He has taught at Monash University, University of Newcastle, the University of San Diego School of Law, the Straus Institute for Dispute Resolution at the Pepperdine University School of Law, and the National Judicial College.


Book Details

ISBN: 9781936268627

Language: English

Category: Law, Psychology, Non-Fiction, Mediation, High-Conflict, Family & Relationships, Relationships, Social Sciences

Publication Date: 16/09/2014

Pages: 157

Format: Paperback

Width: 5.5 inch

Height: 8.5 inch